This week, however, I went back to work.  Like the next guy, there always is a bit of time to spin up the engines again, and get re-engaged in the day to day grind of work.  However, this time was a bit different.  I’ve spent the week thinking about what is different, why I feel different, and most importantly how to keep it.  I think it boils down to perspective.  You see, I’m what you (and definitely my wife) would call a work-a-holic.  I’ve always got my iPhone with me, checking email, making calls, checking up on things.  I have a very hard time detaching myself from work, and tend to run around with the complex that the world will probably end if I don’t make that call or send that email.  However, this past week, I was forced to “unplug” as many of the places we went I couldn’t get a signal, and what I discovered was that the world kept on going.  Yes, I know, it’s quite the novel concept.  However, I think it was enough of a nudge to put things into a different perspective.  I like it.  I think I’ll try to keep it. 

The most important things are my wife, my boys, my faith, my friends, and how I treat them all.  Getting wrapped up in revenue, gross margin, efficiency, call volume, projections, EBITDA, etc. is important and a necessary part of life (unless you just happen to be independently wealthy).  However, it shouldn’t come at the expense of those things most important.  I should have the energy and desire to spend time with my loved ones and not allow any job to suck that out of me like a vampire.  So I won’t.  I’m still passionate about being successful, and affecting outcomes such that those around me are also successful.  I love solving problems, and creating long-lasting, innovative solutions.  But if that is going to interfere with a little league game, date night with my wife, chilling with my boys playing XBOX, or developing a stronger relationship with my God, then that price is too high and I won’t pay it.

Just thought I’d share…